Terrible
days seem to have their roots in more than circumstances.
It
seems as though, when one thing goes wrong , the avalanche starts.
What
can we do to stop the avalanche or better yet , to prevent it
altogether ?
Here'
my two cents after a glaring failure ….
- Don't knock the first pebble out !
We
all know that's how it starts .
In
other words, think before you speak or act … and when you get that
feeling ( the one
we
all know too well ) that this isn't going to end well, stop …
stop...stop !
- If the pebble is already out … replace it with lightning speed , if possible.Honestly , you're going to have to fix damage one way or another, right ?There might just be something to that old “Mitigating damages” idea.
If
the pebble has been knocked out , what can you do … after ? Of
course this isn't all encompassing , but it's a simple place to start
, from one avalanche starter to another.
1.
Move . Stop. Desist.
Don't
cause more damage. Stop digging the hole deeper.
2.
Apologize , even if you were initially right , or feel that you
were right .
Being
right doesn't mean that you should treat someone badly or
overreact.
3.
Go to confession.
First
and foremost your relationship with
The
Lord is most important, right ?
Revelation
21 :5